GO PLACIDLY amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story.
Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexatious to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter, for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism.
Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment, it is as perennial as the grass.
Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be. And whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul. With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.
I like this poem so much, and it probably inspires me more than any text. Right now the line that calls to me most is, "As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons". That isn't always easy to do, especially when relationships have suffered because one person or party feels they've been wronged by another.
How do you deal with feeling trapped in a situation where you are being wronged by another?
1. Accept the situation for any number of reasons.
2. Walk away. Not always possible.
3. Talk to the other person in truth and love to resolve the situation. This is the ideal outcome for all, but only works if both parties are willing to be mature and appreciate the other party's perspective.
4. Push back or retaliate until the wrongs end and/or are righted. Not ideal, but it will lead to a functional resolution when at least one party is not willing to do #3.
5. Scorched earth. Vindictive vengeance. Karma is a boomerang. Probably worst than even #1.
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